#Move in silence like lasagna full

The day after I made the post I was gonna be late home and had asked SD to reheat the frozen lasagna I had made for dinner. IвЂ™ve been stressed and working late these days. With the separation, my financial situation is pretty tight and I couldnвЂ™t afford to chase this issue legally. What I found out wasnвЂ™t very promising and the lawyer retainer fee for a custody fight is too high. Update: I talked with different lawyers to see what I could do in this situation.

I love them but this is becoming unbearable. Everyone in my life is expecting me to suck it up and do whatвЂ™s best for the kids. But I donвЂ™t know what to do about the kids. The absolute cheek of them to treat me like this is making my head explode. The amount of hurt and anger I feel towards my husband and his ex-wife is too much and itвЂ™s painful to have to keep dealing with them. I love my SD and I donвЂ™t want to do anything to hurt her further, but I canвЂ™t take living like this. Meanwhile, my Ex frequently drops by under the guise of seeing the kids but keeps trying to cajole me into letting him move back. She treats me like I am their nanny expecting me to continue taking care of things for the kids and leaving me with instructions and criticisms. She feels no guilt about the infidelity and acts as if I am the interloper. IвЂ™d have been happy with having the kids with me, but my problem is that both my husband and kidsвЂ™ mom feel at liberty to come into my house whenever they feel like it because their kids are here. Neither of them is taking any steps to move out the kids who are still living in their rooms and living their lives as if this family hasnвЂ™t imploded. My SD was mad at both her parents and wants to continue living with me.

But he agreed to a separation and has moved out to an apartment. He doesnвЂ™t want this marriage to end and seems somehow convinced that IвЂ™ll change my mind. I have filed for divorce and asked him to leave. IвЂ™ve been trying to get pregnant for the past 2 years so realizing that my husband was sleeping with both me and his ex back to back was especially nauseating for me.

After some sleuthing, I found out that their affair had been going on for months and possibly a whole year. She found her parents together in my bedroom and was upset about the infidelity.

#Move in silence like lasagna full

The custody arrangement they have on paper is 50-50 but their mom doesnвЂ™t have as much space as I do, so the kids are here almost full time.ДЄ few months ago, I came back from an overnight school field trip with my stepson to a very distraught SD. Kids love their rooms in our home and their lives in our town. I own a 3 bedroom house I had inherited from my parents, and my husband and kids moved in to live with me. They both travel a lot and I became the sole parent who was fully engaged. Both husband and his ex-wife were satisfied with me doing the grunt work for the kids. We all co-parented well, with me taking on a more active role in their school and other stuff. My SD and I hit it off really well and I love both my stepkids. My husband and his ex arenвЂ™t bad parents but he travels a lot for work and she is a bit flighty and self-indulgent. Both she and my stepson (now 12M) were somewhat neglected and had behavior issues when I met them. I came into my stepdaughterвЂ™s (16F) life when she was 10. вЂњMy husband (40M) and I (34F) have been married for 4 yrs.